I had a great trip to Utah, even considering the circumstances. The only problem was that the trip was too short...from Friday morning to Sunday night. The traveling was a breeze and I couldn't help but enjoy my alone time :) As soon as I got my rental car I went straight to my favorite quilt shop and got a bite to eat at Cafe Rio. I know, I was going for a funeral, right? But, I promised Dan that I would take a little alone time too since I've been wishing for it lately. After that I went to my grandma Simmons house where my parents were staying. My mom and I were able to go fun a few errands and also hit a few fabric stores. It was fun to be with my mom and talk with her. I think it was a nice break for her from all the funeral planning. That evening was the viewing and it went very well. My grandma was a SUPER social person, so there were quite a few people at both the viewing and the funeral. My grandma looked beautiful, just like I remember her. She always had her "face on" and her hair done and fingernails done. She was always well put together. The next day, Saturday was the funeral and it was perfect. Everything about it was just lovely. The speakers were amazing and paid a beautiful tribute to her. The overall theme of her life was that she LOVED music and would always be singing and that she was a super social and kind woman who loved everyone, especially her family. She had many great accomplishments and a witty sense of humor. While at the funeral, I realized that I have a lot in common with my grandma, but that there are many things that she had that I wish I did...or characteristics she had that I wish I had. Remembering her and what a kind, loving, and fun lady she was really made me want to be a better person...be more like her. She was raised in the depression and her father left her family, yet she was always optimistic and happy. I am determined to be more like her. Happy, patient, caring, outgoing, giving, self-less...she truly was an amazing woman! My mom said that the best way to honor someone is to try to be a better person...and that's what I'm going to do. So, after the funeral services, we went to the graveside service, which was short and sweet. After that we went to a luncheon at the chapel and then to my uncle's house. We were able to sit around and reminisce of the good old times. It was soo fun to see cousins and aunts and uncles that I haven't seen in years. The next day I had to leave to go back home. I loved being there and was so glad I was able to go. It was nice to be there for my mom and spend some time with her. My grandma will truly be missed....we love you grandma Hatch!!!
And if you don't believe me that she was ALWAYS singing...here are two videos of her when we visited in July.
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That's awesome you had such a nice trip. Your grandma seemed like a super cool lady. I loved her singing you could tell she had such a zest for life.
I've loved getting to know Carson better in preschool this week. He is so sweet and go with the flow. :)
I remember hearing about her from you when we were growing up! (Her "face" and such!) Kev's grandma is like that - she always looks super sharp...I would love to be like that when I'm older. And of course I hope I'm still singing! (I'm sure you will be, too!!!)
You keep such a good outlook on things, even when I'm sure you're sad she's gone. I'm glad you could have some good times with your mother and family and that you were able to make it out there. I imagine that going to quilt shops in Utah is like a pilgrimage??
Lynette, from what you say about your grandmother, I do believe you are well on your way to becoming like her! When I think of you, I only think happy and positive things!!
Lynette, I FOUND YOU! (And I sent you another email--yes, I had the right email address.) Your kids are so cute. They look a lot like you.
This made me cry. I'm so glad you got a video of Grandma singing. What a treasure hearing Grandma sing her famous songs for your kids. I had no idea you were out here in July.
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